I spend a significant amount of time each week meeting with couples. They come to find ways to resolve emotionally powerful issues that undermine their love for each other. In all cases the work is helping couples to gain a shared understanding of themselves that will allow for mutual problem solving instead of defensively reacting to each other. The links and videos below provide opportunities to think about your spouse in a different light. One that will allow you to be curious about your positive and negative feelings towards the other. That is the foundation for change and the opportunity to have a more meaningful relationship.